I met this guy and he is real cool. I like him so far, but I think he is a little too sprung (& no we have not had sex yet). I just think he is trying to move too fast, but the crazy thing about it is that he is doing everything I wish my baby dad was doing! He really wants a family and to be married. I am afraid if I tell him that he is moving too fast that he will back all the way up, but at the same time I don’t want to lead him on. Helpppppp
Me n my girl been together for like 3 years now. I love her 2 death she is everything I ever wanted in a woman. She is the mother of my daughter and she is also pregnant right now. What attracted me to her was she was a go getter, in college, working, good credit, didn’t really do the bar scene, loves me, cooks good except she is boring in bed. She was molested when she was younger so sex is kind of hard for her she says it is painful and it brings up all the old memories of her getting molested. She does it to please me because she knows I have needs but I never thought it would be this hard. Head is totally out the question and when she lets me have sex with her she just lays there. As I said I have needs but I don’t want to hurt her either. We have been through therapy and I don’t know what to do. Do I get a side piece to fulfill my needs or break up with her? I think that would hurt her even worse.