My husband and I have been together for 6 years. We have 2 kids and one on the way. Now I already know this may sound messed up to a lot of women, but this is my reality and I just want to see if there is anybody out there who feels like me.
Anyway, we have been together for 6 years and about 2 years ago he cheated on me and had a baby out of the affair. His daughter just turned one a couple months ago, & I hate to say it but I hate that little girl. She is just a constant reminder that he cheated on me. Every time I see that little girl that is all I can think about (and she is so beautiful). It just messed up because we have 2 boys and like I said again, I’m pregnant with another boy. I want a daughter. I swear it is so unfair.
I did decide to take him back because I was raised that no matter what you stick with your husband. But I am not accepting that little girl. No way! Now I do make sure he pays his child support but he cannot spend any time with her because I can’t trust him around that child’s mother. I know a lot of people tell me I am wrong, but he can either have that child or he can be with me and our 3 kids. Yes, I said it… he has to choose, it us or that little girl!